of marriage and younger man

a few of us single colleagues got talking about marriage and having children over dinner yesterday. it was just 4 of us, three females and 1 male.
what transpired?

no one opposed to the idea of being a single parent. one said it was our right to choose what we wanted to do with our body. and i of course said, the experience of being a woman would not be complete without the experience of giving birth to a life. who cares what the community says.
but getting married just for the purpose of having a child? hmmm...that is a nono. if a marriage is meant to fall apart, it will. i am an utter romantic, i will only marry out of love. marriage is not a necessity. so what do i do when i am old? well, i dunno whether i will live to that old anyway.

oh, and woman should marry younger man younger. hahaha why? well, it is quite a known fact that woman lives longer than man right? so if a woman marries a younger man, then she does not have to suffer the consequences of living a long solitary life after the husband dies. makes sense? but i wonder what the man thinks of marrying an older woman? it is always the other way.

call me a fool, but i will wait for that right man to come along. how do i know? i trust my intuition. that heartbeat, that pulse will never go wrong. (keep my fingers crossed)